From Soweto Shebeen Queen to Showmax Reality TV Star: Meet Big Mama

Showmax has just launched its latest reality TV show, Shebeen Queens, a captivating look into the lives of the bold women who run some of Soweto‘s most popular shebeens: Alina’s Place, Big Mama’s Tavern, and Rams Tavern. The Showmax Original stars the vibrant and resilient entrepreneurs Alina Sishange, Emily Thabang Leeuw, known as Big Mama, and Xoliswa Shwayimba. These women are navigating the demanding world of shebeen management, an industry traditionally dominated by men, where balancing parenting with the demands of a high-energy business is a constant challenge.

Produced by Barkers Media, the creative minds behind How To Manifest A Man, and directed by Mpho Lengane, known for Isencane Lengane, Shebeen Queens brings the lives of these women into the spotlight. The show captures the laughter, the liquor, and the late-night hustle, all while showcasing the tenacity it takes to thrive in such a cut-throat environment.

Big Mama’s Journey: From Rebellion to Reality TV

Emily Thabang Leeuw, affectionately known as Big Mama, is one of the standout personalities on Shebeen Queens. In an exclusive interview with Sanelisiwe Mhlati, Big Mama opened up about her life and what led her to the reality TV screen.

“My girls—my children—know me best,”.

she shares, reflecting on her close relationship with her daughters

Growing up as the youngest of six children, Big Mama’s childhood was marked by rebellion and privilege.

“During my adolescent years, I was very rebellious. I dropped out of school in grade 7, but I grew up being a cheesegirl. My parents spoiled me.”

When asked about her reaction to being cast on the show, Big Mama admitted she was initially shocked and skeptical.

“I was tempted to say no, but I saw how consistent and serious the production team was about bringing me on board, so I couldn’t resist the opportunity.”

Her family’s reaction mirrored her own surprise, but they quickly grew excited once filming began.

Life in the Shebeen and On Camera

Adjusting to life on camera has been an interesting transition for Big Mama.

“I adapted quickly to having cameras around,. The hardest part is having to be vulnerable and exposing every aspect of my life.”

she explains

Yet, she promises viewers an authentic experience, filled with “truth, plenty of cussing, and a whole lot of craziness.”

Big Mama’s Tavern has been a cornerstone of her life and family legacy. Passed down from her mother, who ran it until her passing, Big Mama officially took over in 2004, securing the necessary permits and licenses.

“I want to leave a legacy for my family,”.

she says

Although her children haven’t shown much interest in the business yet, she’s grooming them to take over and even has plans to expand the business.

Challenges and Triumphs in the Shebeen Business

Running a shebeen in Soweto comes with its challenges, from fierce competition to strained relationships with neighbors.

“The competition is there, but what keeps my business successful are my loyal customers and my trading hours. Unlike my competitors, I close shop at 2 am instead of 10 pm. I’m willing to stay up late to gain an edge.”

This dedication has sometimes led to tension with her neighbors due to noise complaints, but Big Mama is unapologetic.

“I don’t care because this is how I take care of my loved ones.”

Meeting her fellow shebeen queens, Xoliswa and Alina, has been a highlight for Big Mama.

“We love each other so much. We are a family now and we constantly check up on each other.”

Personal Life and Future Plans

On a personal note, Big Mama shares insights into her long-term relationship with her fiancé, Siya, who she describes as “crazy.” Despite their ups and downs and the challenges of infidelity, Big Mama remains committed.

“Men cheat, so I’m not leaving my fiancé thinking I’ll find better. Men have been cheating for years; it’s just how they are.”

As for wedding plans, they’ve been on hold due to Siya’s retrenchment during the nationwide lockdown, but Big Mama is hopeful.

“I want a small intimate wedding. This wedding is long overdue; we really need to tie the knot now.”

Big Mama’s journey, filled with resilience, humor, and a deep love for her community and family, promises to be a standout on Shebeen Queens. With her larger-than-life personality and candid approach to life, she is sure to captivate viewers and offer a glimpse into the world of Soweto’s shebeen culture.

Shebeen Queens is streaming now on Showmax.

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